Aryana's Baptism

We had a busy and fun filled weekend. We celebrated my Nana's 80th birthday on Saturday and Aryana was baptised on Sunday.

Chris, Karen and Michelle were all able to return to Winnipeg for the celebrations. It was great to see them but I was not able to spend as much time with them as I would have liked. I saw cousins who I have not seen in probably 10 years as well as familiar faces. We had delicious food on both days. I can't thank Linda, Michele and Yvonne enough for preparing such a delicious spread at Aryana's baptism celebration.

Aryana handled all the festivities with ease. She even napped well at my parents place. She smiled a lot and enjoyed playing with family and friends (as long as we didn't hold her too long!).

I was able to speak on Sunday without crying. I watched a video though, I guess I tend to talk A LOT with my hands when I get nervous. Oh well. Aryana giggled when Rob was baptising her. My dad got a good picture of that. I can't wait to see Joey's pictures and Micah's video.

Auntie Michelle showing Aryana how to pose like a Boyko.

After all the festivities we realized we did not take a family picture. So after a few attempts of setting the timer and Ben running into the photo we did get a couple pictures.

It always amazes me that a love between two people can grow into such a large family!

The Boykos.The Postmas.

Aryana was smiling away! I hope I never forget it!

Daddy's Little Girl.

Four Generations.

Playing with Uncle Chris and Auntie Karen.

Aryana Videos

Aryana is becoming more and more animated. It is really cool to watch her character and personality develop. We captured a few good videos. In one she is talking to Ben. Aryana talks less than usual in the video because she gets distracted by the camera. In the other video she is twirling the rattle like a baton. I thought it was hilarious. She LOVES the rattle. She always tries to stick the whole thing in her mouth.

Just to Clarify...

I just wanted to make a point about my expectations for Aryana's sleep schedule. People keep saying that it is normal for a child of her age not to sleep through the night. I know that. I am NOT expecting her to sleep through the night. I am perfectly happy and willing at this stage to tend to her 3 times during her night (7p.m.-7a.m.). It is just discouraging when she awakes every hour.

My goals are:

• 3 naps a day, longer than 30 minutes each. (If her naps are too short she tends to fall asleep nursing and cannot make it to her next nap time, therefore she ends up having 4-5 short naps per day.)
• Napping alone in her crib, not being held.
• Going to bed between 6-7 at night.
• Sleeping for at least 3 hour stretches at night. (Currently she has one 3 hour stretch then wakes up every hour or two. There is no reason for her to awake every hour at night.)
• Waking up around 7 in the morning with a smile on her face. (that's actually the best time of Ben and my day because she is ECSTATIC to see us in the morning.)

I hope everyone now understands my expectations and don't think I am being unreasonable. I actually enjoy cuddling with her at night because she isn't always cuddly during the day because she wants to move around and play.

Frustrated

We've worked so hard to sleep train Aryana and the past few days and nights it feel like we have done nothing at all. She was sleeping 5-7 hour stretches a night and down to 3 naps per day. Last night the longest she slept was 2 hours in a row and she has had 6 very short naps today. She is currently trying to settle herself down in her crib. I'm working on 3 hours of sleep so her crying is stressing me out more than usual.

Sigh, I wish she would sleep...